I think that if it was unnecessary for some people to exploit an older lady I like to punish me for no reason, convinced my being in supposed trouble was actually all or nothing and if something then all ... that means people are still holding onto defending someone to promote it for some reason, just because of reasons they don't know or if they do they are either a bad person or "going along with the crowd." That person also feels pressured and resorts this as the reason she does it. I'm not sure what she thinks would happen if she didn't do it.